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coachinghope4u
Dec 23, 20222 min read
Truth Series: Fait Accompli
My attorney sent me THE email: “SHE HAS SUBMITTED HER RESPONSE.” It has been exactly 122 days (or over 4 months) since our original...
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coachinghope4u
Dec 9, 20223 min read
Resurrecting Joy from Hell.
Christmas 2022 I feel a jitteriness in my fingers pressing me to get this thought to you: Joy. Joy. Joy. It is creeping inside my...
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coachinghope4u
Nov 26, 20223 min read
The Truth Series: Orange Juice Trigger
I set the orange juice bottle next to the chips in the pantry and paused as a realization came to me. “Orange juice does not belong here....
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coachinghope4u
Nov 12, 20222 min read
The Truth Series: Guess who?
Monday, November 7, 2022, this showed up in my emails from the courts: My obvious question was “What above case?” since nothing was above...
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coachinghope4u
Oct 28, 20223 min read
The Truth Series: My Judge, again
I’d love to stop talking about myself. But currently, I’m overly annoyed with the courts, so it feels appropriate to keep educating you,...
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coachinghope4u
Oct 14, 20223 min read
The Truth Series: Me and my Judge
Dear Judge, When we sat in court on August 23, 2022, you said, in 30-45 days, you would provide me a decision from my last hearing which...
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coachinghope4u
Oct 2, 20225 min read
Gibberish Tip #5: Word Salad.
I thought we might be done with my client whose x-husband keeps asking her to therapy (see Gibberish Tip #4), but she brought me this new...
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coachinghope4u
Sep 17, 20226 min read
Gibberish Tip #4: Chaos.
Here is a real life situation I would like to share with you in hopes it will give you tools for your own journey. I have a client who...
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coachinghope4u
Sep 2, 20225 min read
My Gift. Look for My Clues! (Hint: Daughter joy!)
Court messes me up. It drains me, disturbs my center of balance, and causes me to grind my teeth so hard my jaws hurt in the morning....
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coachinghope4u
Aug 11, 20227 min read
The Truth Series: Me (on a good hair day).
I spend a lot of time asking women (and men) to step into fear. Have courage. Be brave. Honor your story. Speak your truth. I want to...
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coachinghope4u
Jul 27, 20222 min read
The Truth Series: Lauren.
Hey Dad, it's been awhile.... It's been 2 years since you've gone to heaven, it's been longer than that since we've really been able to...
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coachinghope4u
Jul 14, 20226 min read
The Truth Series: Part 4- Court: Judging “Wisdom”
This may be the most provocative piece of the judge’s dialogue. What are your thoughts about the Judge’s OPINION? As a reminder: this is...
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coachinghope4u
Jul 1, 20226 min read
The Truth Series: Part 3- Court: What Planet Is This?
Dad’s Turn for the judge’s “insightful” questions. As a reminder: this is PART 3 of a 4 Part Series: Part 1 is an unadulterated overview...
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coachinghope4u
Jun 19, 20228 min read
The Truth Series: Part 2- Court: Am I Crazy?
Divorce court is real- couples go through it every day. What makes the following court proceeding so interesting? It is a teaser, a clue...
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coachinghope4u
Jun 2, 202211 min read
The Truth Series: Part 1- Court: The Unadulterated Version
The goal of the “Truth Series” is to educate with truth and infuse that truth with hope. Here is another 2 parter (All names have been...
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coachinghope4u
May 20, 20222 min read
Honoring Alex- My grief and joy as I support my son grow into a man.
Alex and Mama. He gave the best hugs. I was trying to write a different blog today but my thoughts keep trailing back to my immediate...
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coachinghope4u
May 7, 20222 min read
The Truth Series: My Mother’s Day
Don’t underestimate a mother’s ferocious determination to protect her child, ever. Mother’s Day is kind of like a pressure cooker for me....
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coachinghope4u
Apr 23, 20223 min read
The Truth Series: A Final Plea- Her letter of truth.
This series is about truth. This is an actual letter from a betrayed partner to her addict husband. She still had hope he would change...
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coachinghope4u
Apr 7, 20225 min read
The Truth Series: Katelin
(wee trigger- references to intimate violence) I overheard a security person tell her, “If you aren’t ok with him coming, let us know. ...
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coachinghope4u
Mar 24, 20224 min read
The Truth Series: Her Eyes, Part 2
Fast forward 12 years… Continue the trauma: undiagnosed and unrecognized. “There is tremendous trauma in the betrayal caused by a...
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